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\u201cSometimes, I am afraid of talking to my partner,\u201d Tina told me.<\/p>\n
I know we both would like to have a peaceful relationship, but we always end our conversation with a conflict.<\/p>\n
All the time, I expect<\/strong> that something will go wrong. I don\u2019t know-how can I get rid of that feeling.<\/p>\n When we talk, I am always afraid of what is behind his conversation. I have a hard time to relax and trust completely. I think both my partner and I have this problem.<\/p>\n .<\/p>\n We bring experiences from our past<\/strong> into a new relationship, good and bad ones.<\/p>\n Even thou, we decided many times that next time will be different; we need to know the following.<\/p>\n When something happens to us<\/strong>; we have a conflict with our partner, we feel uncomfortable in a situation, we experience despair, hopelessness, anger, disappointment, the energy of that event stays in our body<\/strong>.<\/p>\n Even thou we decide things will be different from now on, the energy from our past experiences is still there<\/strong>.<\/p>\n Regardless of how we wish to behave differently, no matter how much new knowledge we accumulated about relationship, communication, and other skills, the energy is still there.<\/p>\n When something happens, someone tells us something, in a certain moment, this stored Energy activates<\/strong>, and causes us we say something or react without control.<\/p>\n Energy wounds from past events, on the other side, make us vulnerable<\/strong>. We react more intensely because we are more sensitive.<\/p>\n We need to understand that our communication problems are not just problems with our communication. Slowly, this affects everything else; your relationship, trust, happiness, intimacy, and your future.<\/p>\n If we want to be happy in our relationship, it is not enough to just decide<\/strong> and wish things to be different.<\/p>\n We need to resolve<\/strong> our old resentments, release their energy, and heal our wounds<\/strong>.<\/p>\n And this is something you deserve to do for yourself, your partner, and for your life.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" \u201cSometimes, I am afraid of talking to my partner,\u201d Tina told me. I know we both would like to have a peaceful relationship, but we always end our conversation with a conflict. All the time, I expect that something will go wrong. I don\u2019t know-how can I get rid of that feeling. When we talk,…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":6108,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"_kad_post_classname":"","footnotes":"","_links_to":"","_links_to_target":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[326,322,321,327],"class_list":["post-6107","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog","tag-energy-and-energy-healing","tag-personal-growth-and-transformation","tag-relationship-and-marriage","tag-training-and-therapy"],"yoast_head":"\n