{"id":6115,"date":"2021-12-09T10:23:07","date_gmt":"2021-12-09T09:23:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/miranpeterman.com\/en\/?p=6115"},"modified":"2023-03-29T17:47:46","modified_gmt":"2023-03-29T15:47:46","slug":"the-big-decision-about-change-is-fake","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/miranpeterman.com\/en\/the-big-decision-about-change-is-fake\/","title":{"rendered":"The Big Decision about Change &#8211; is Fake!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-6116 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/miranpeterman.com\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/big-change.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"850\" height=\"567\" srcset=\"https:\/\/miranpeterman.com\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/big-change.jpg 850w, https:\/\/miranpeterman.com\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/big-change-620x414.jpg 620w, https:\/\/miranpeterman.com\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/big-change-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 850px) 100vw, 850px\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Have you ever wanted to change your Life and didn\u2019t know how? And then someone gave you a few clues, and you decided from now on everything will change?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">How long did a change last? A week or two, and then things were the same again. Why is that?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Many times someone comes to me with questions. They want to change their Life, better their Relationship.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">And I give them the steps that they need to take. And then they came back a few days later, with the Big Decision.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">You know Miran, I spoke to my partner; we talked it over, and we decided; things will be different from now on. Thank you for your time and your advice.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">You are welcome. Even though, honestly, this was not my purpose in giving you advice.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Let me ask you a question! What happened after I gave you a few, just a few instructions on how to change your situation?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Nothing. Yes, you got some energy, motivation, momentum. And this caused you to make a plan and make a decision. But!<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Things in Life can change when something new comes into our Life<\/strong>; new knowledge, a different perspective, fresh understanding, steps, and a blueprint for a change that you need.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Many times, <strong>you need healing to take place<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">And if our Life was not ok for five, ten, or even more years &#8211; <strong>things can\u2019t change with one decision<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">It can give you the direction; to find help, to find a mentor who can guide you on a new path.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">When you decide, the Energy of that decision vanishes within a week. And then what? You remain without Energy, without knowledge, without the support you need. And you can\u2019t keep the promise that you gave.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Please understand. The Big Decision about Change &#8211; is Fake. It doesn\u2019t work, and it doesn\u2019t last.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Let\u2019s say you have a garden, and you didn\u2019t know how to take care of it. It produced nothing. Will one decision change that? <strong>It takes time, and work<\/strong>, a different approach to make a change.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">I have been there, tried all shortcuts, I was a smart ass myself. But it didn\u2019t work. <strong>I had to accept and embrace the laws of nature<\/strong>. Then things changed.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">The Big Decision about Change is Great! But decide you want to find support!<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Today.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Have you ever wanted to change your Life and didn\u2019t know how? And then someone gave you a few clues, and you decided from now on everything will change? How long did a change last? 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