the difference<\/strong> between an Intellectual Decision to change and a Real Change.<\/p>\nThey say: \u201cI don\u2019t have time for people who don\u2019t have time for me. I will never again date a guy like this. I will always put myself first. \u201c<\/p>\n
A lady told me. I decided I don\u2019t want to date guys like this anymore. Whenever I meet such a guy, I recognize the pattern, and I go away.<\/p>\n
She was very proud and happy about her change.<\/p>\n
I understand. And I was happy for her. But.<\/p>\n
This is the only first step to a change<\/strong>. And unfortunately, most of the people stay at that level.<\/p>\nIf, after deciding that you want to put yourself first, you still meet people that don\u2019t treat you right, you made only an intellectual decision<\/strong>.<\/p>\nYou changed your way of thinking, your values, and you follow that. You stand by your decision and even defend it verbally. You tell people they can\u2019t treat you that way.<\/p>\n
All this is good, and congratulation on your accomplishment. But.<\/p>\n
Your decision is only intellectual. You didn\u2019t change your vibration yet<\/strong>!<\/p>\nYou didn\u2019t change your vibration because you don\u2019t know how to change it; you don\u2019t know how to change your mindset, your inner subconscious programming, your energy. Maybe you need help with that, and I can help you.<\/p>\n
When you really change your vibration, not just decide intellectually, you meet no more people who wouldn\u2019t treat you right. You meet no more strange guys.<\/p>\n
To realize that something is wrong in your life when things happen is a great step. But when you change your vibration, such things shouldn\u2019t happen anymore<\/strong>.<\/p>\nYou don\u2019t need to say I don\u2019t have time for people who don\u2019t like me because there are no such people in your life anymore.<\/p>\n
When you make a Real Change, you change your vibration<\/strong>, and the world around you changes accordingly.<\/p>\nIf you still need to say things, if you still notice things that are not right, if you still need to defend yourself, you need to know that you are on the way, but you are not yet there. There is still work to do.<\/p>\n
When you make a Real Change, you change your vibration, and the world around you changes<\/strong> accordingly.<\/p>\nAnd, maybe today is a great day to start.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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