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I hear many times: I like to be spontaneous in a relationship.<\/p>\n
We don\u2019t plan things; it seems like a burden to me, an obligation.<\/p>\n
When we feel to do something, we do it.<\/p>\n
When I feel I want to surprise my partner, I do it.<\/p>\n
Sounds wonderful! But, is it?<\/p>\n
Does it work?<\/p>\n
A relationship is like a garden; You have to cultivate it<\/strong>!<\/p>\n A personal relationship is like a business relationship; You have to nurture it.<\/p>\n If you don\u2019t communicate, if you don\u2019t do things together, you drift apart.<\/p>\n The relationship loses its spark; the connection is gone.<\/p>\n The same applies to our love relationship.<\/p>\n Just because you are together, just because you live together,<\/strong><\/p>\n doesn\u2019t mean that you will stay together<\/strong>. If you don\u2019t work on a relationship.<\/p>\n You know, if you don\u2019t schedule a call with a business prospect, the opportunity will vanish.<\/p>\n But, if you don\u2019t schedule an activity with your partner, sparks and love will slowly disappear<\/strong>.<\/p>\n Plan your walks, plan your talks, plan your surprises, plan your \u201cspontaneous\u201d activities.<\/p>\n What you saw, you reap. Where you invest, you harvest.<\/p>\n It takes time, energy, and planning.<\/p>\n Love and happiness are not something that happens; they are something you plan<\/strong>!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" I hear many times: I like to be spontaneous in a relationship. We don\u2019t plan things; it seems like a burden to me, an obligation. When we feel to do something, we do it. When I feel I want to surprise my partner, I do it. Sounds wonderful! But, is it? Does it work? A…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":6162,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"_kad_post_classname":"","footnotes":"","_links_to":"","_links_to_target":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[323,322,321],"class_list":["post-6161","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog","tag-motivation-and-goals","tag-personal-growth-and-transformation","tag-relationship-and-marriage"],"yoast_head":"\n