{"id":6312,"date":"2022-03-23T18:34:07","date_gmt":"2022-03-23T17:34:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/miranpeterman.com\/en\/?p=6312"},"modified":"2023-03-29T17:32:04","modified_gmt":"2023-03-29T15:32:04","slug":"you-cant-expect-your-partner-to-treat-you-nicely-if-you-dont-treat-nice-yourself","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/miranpeterman.com\/en\/you-cant-expect-your-partner-to-treat-you-nicely-if-you-dont-treat-nice-yourself\/","title":{"rendered":"You can\u2019t expect your partner to treat you nicely if you don\u2019t treat nice yourself!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-6313 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/miranpeterman.com\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/appreciate-yourself.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"850\" height=\"567\" srcset=\"https:\/\/miranpeterman.com\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/appreciate-yourself.jpg 850w, https:\/\/miranpeterman.com\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/appreciate-yourself-620x414.jpg 620w, https:\/\/miranpeterman.com\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/appreciate-yourself-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 850px) 100vw, 850px\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Mary came to me seeking help with her relationship. Her partner didn\u2019t treat her well. They were having problems with intimacy. They lost a spark and affection for each other.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">I explained to her how I could help her put herself first, <strong>be more nice and more loving to herself<\/strong>, heal her past wounds and <strong>change her relationship<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">This all sounds great, but it costs money, she said.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Yes, it is true. But everything in the world costs. The question is, <strong>do you feel you deserve it<\/strong> for yourself?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">You would like to be treated nicely, but <strong>you don\u2019t treat nice yourself<\/strong>. You don\u2019t feel you deserve this for you.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">This therapy can change your life, and investment is smaller than the costs of your last year\u2019s holidays. And you treated yourself that because you felt you deserve it.<\/p>\n<h4>If you want to put yourself first, you need to put yourself first!<\/h4>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">If you want to put yourself first, you need to put yourself first. <strong>Not selfishly, but with love and care<\/strong>. If you want to send a message to yourself, that <strong>you are important<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Your life is important, your happiness is important, your relationship is important, your future is important. It is important that you invest in all that.<\/p>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: justify;\">You can\u2019t expect your partner to treat you nicely if you don\u2019t treat nice yourself!<\/h4>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">And if you invest with me, to help you, I will be grateful, but it is not about me. It is you who is important.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Do something for you <strong>because of you<\/strong>!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Mary came to me seeking help with her relationship. Her partner didn\u2019t treat her well. They were having problems with intimacy. They lost a spark and affection for each other. 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